I've learned to shut up.

...but first, let's rewind to a few hours before shall we?

Have you ever been in a situation where you give some advice to a friend, but it (I rather not specify she or he, anyway it's easier than typing he/she) replies by saying stuff like:

"Yeah, you think I don't know is it?"

"It's not as easy as you think..."

"I can't do it..."

And the next day it comes back to you and starts to sound optimistic saying that it has changed it's mind about things after talking to older, more about it's problems. In this case, age is the only thing that is defining maturity to be specific.

Fast forward to the present - I decided to just be happy for it and shut up. Really, I am.